Welcome to Mr. Kelly Carrington’s birth doula practice.
If you are visiting from the Birth Happens website, you have been redirected here since Birth Happens is no longer offering birth classes. Kelly continues to offer professional doula services, and you can also contact Venessa through the Birth Happens Facebook page.
What is a doula?
The word "doula" comes from the ancient Greek meaning "a woman who serves" and is now used to refer to a trained and experienced professional who provides continuous physical, emotional and informational support to the mother before, during and just after birth; or who provides emotional and practical support during the postpartum period.
Studies have shown that when doulas attend birth, labors are shorter with fewer complications, babies are healthier and they breastfeed more easily.
There is actually no word for a male doula.
A Birth Doula
- Recognizes birth as a key experience the mother will remember all her life
- Understands the physiology of birth and the emotional needs of a woman in labor
- Assists the woman in preparing for and carrying out her plans for birth
- Stays with the woman throughout the labor
- Provides emotional support, physical comfort measures and an objective viewpoint,
as well as helping the woman get the information she needs to make informed decisions
- Facilitates communication between the laboring woman, her partner and her clinical care providers
- Perceives the role as nurturing and protecting the woman's memory of the birth experience
- Allows the woman's partner to participate at his/her comfort level
A birth doula certified by DONA International is designated by the initials CD(DONA).
What a Birth Doula does not do:
- Perform clinical tasks, such as blood pressure, fetal heart checks, or vaginal exams.
I am here to provide physical comfort and emotional support.
- Make decisions for you.
I will help you get the information necessary to make an informed decision. I will also remind you if there is a departure from your birth plan.
- Speak to the staff on your behalf.
I will discuss your concerns with you and suggest options, but you and your partner will speak directly to clinical staff.